Sunday, September 11, 2005

Love hurts


Of course love hurts....if it doesn't, it ain't love.....

Received the following sms at the ungodly hour of 5:59 a.m. :

"My personal view on the pain of love - liking someone a lot and that person doesn't even know u like them"

Sigh....that comes from a friend of mine who is currently nursing a massive crush. Anyone pondering over such profound thoughts at 5:59a.m. on a Sunday morning...well....my advice: Do something about it!!!!!!

We're living in a century whereby its no longer a girl-must-wait-for-guy-to take-first-step era anymore. Geez....all that talk about equality of genders...surely it applies to matters close at heart too?

And if guy in question cannot accept a first step by a girl...well, then...we've sussed out one thing for certain....he probably cannnot accept a lot of other gender-related issues too....so unless you're content on surrendering your independence and right to voice your opinion, have an ambition to sacrifice a promising career to stay home to take care of the kids and nurture a female-stereotyped hobby such as knitting/ patchwork....chances are, the relationship would be doomed under normal circumstances anyway.

But what if he says "No thanks"...well, its not an entire loss either...at least you haven't wasted another six months wondering if he has been interested or not, analysing to death your conversations and actions for all its worth...all of which is very counter-productive and does not bring you any closer to your object of affection!

No risk no gain....after all, if things don't work out...time is a magnificent healer.

7 Comments:

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At 8:43 pm, Blogger Aurora said...

ewww. Spam.

I'm still waiting for Cupid to get his aim right :(

Big day round the corner dear?

 
At 10:16 pm, Blogger munsta said...

yes it is....it'll be a busy 2 weeks...what with one reception in penang next weekend, and the other in kuching the weekend after :)

 
At 11:46 pm, Blogger Aurora said...

no wonder you're so familiar with kuching. Is hubby a blogger too? ;)

 
At 12:22 am, Blogger munsta said...

yes he does blog...opportunity for him to blab and cuss as he likes :)

 
At 4:44 pm, Blogger Aurora said...

Hmm. Should i hazard a guess to his identity .. nah, not on a public comment box ;-)

Anyways, wanted to drop you a note and wish you a wonderful wedding!

 
At 12:01 am, Blogger munsta said...

Thank you very much :)

 

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